15 ideas for dates, a date with YOU that is!
Monday, November 2, 2009 at 1:18PM
Taking a stroll through the park.
If you asked women one of the things they cherish most, I think they would answer "my alone time." I couldn't agree more. Even though I'm a very social person - my space and alone time is very important to me. I love how Carolyn (with idea #14) put it, "I like me and that helps!"
So I asked my fans on Facebook for ideas or things to do on a solo date. A solo date is where you have a date with YOU! Ever have one of those?! They are dreamy and cure most problems you might be having. Here's what the ladies had to share...
15 ideas for dates, a date with YOU that is!
- Catch a flick. It's cheap and you can eat as much popcorn as you like.
- People watch while hanging out at a coffee house or park.
- Grab a coffee and browse an independent bookstore.
- Grab a book, your ipod and hit the pool!
- Crank your favorite tunes while driving and sing like no one is watching you.
- Indulge in a manicure and pedicure. Heck, make it a facial and massage! (btw - book a 30-min massage if you're on a budget, so worth it!)
- Walk a labyrinth and journal your insights. Taking a camera would be fun too.
- For those who live in the North Pole, hit the tanning bed but keep it short.
- Get on a bus and go to a different part of town to discover new little shops or cafes.
- Take the picnic indoors with your favorite treats, journal, music, paints whatever is your thang!
- On a gorgeous day, go wander a flower nursery.
- Walk the beach or take a hike - leave the iPod at home.
- Catch the latest exhibit at your local art museum.
- Just being. Perhaps reading, sitting and really listening to music, not just having it on in the background, Eating cereal for dinner if that's what I want, writing a letter to a friend instead of emailing.
- Go have lunch at your favorite restaurant and splurge on a glass of vino!
I dare you to adventure out in the next couple of weeks and try one of them! I just took care of #5 while driving to the doctors and back! :)

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Reader Comments (3)
What a wonderful post... and, I would argue, not just for women. For us guys who value our 'me time' it is informative too! I do #5 every day... :)
Thank you...
Darren
Thanks Darren for your comment! I am all about inspiring men too! :) ~ misty
I liked all your ideas regarding Dating. I like the 15 point the most. I am also inspired by this post.